I feel like I have been saying this so much to certain people this week who cannot leave my life choices alone, it is to a point where it pisses me off. So girl power. Straight up.
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Anonymous asked: i need some advice. so, my fuck buddy always insists that i fuck her without a condom. she says she's tested and whatever. i just wanted your opinion. but i don't want you to say "if you're questioning it, don't do it." like. look at it as if i didn't ask this.lol
Well, the first thing to really look at is is she sleeping with other partners and are they having unprotected sex too ? Because that really changes the situation because you can not be 100% sure if her other partners have been tested, and if they have have they told anyone about their results (because as embarrassing as it is, it is really important to tell partners about any sort of std you have and if they can potentially catch it). If it is a monogamous sexual relationship (ie. if neither of you are having sex with other partners) then I think it should be okay, but be sure you use another kind of contraceptive like the pill, nuva ring, the patch, depo provera shot, an IUD, diaphram, or even spermicide. Do not use just the pull out method it is not that effective, but be sure that she does use some kind of birth control at least. If you really are worried go get tested together.
I have had sex without a condom before, which isn’t the best idea but hey it happens, and being in long term relationship (ie. boyfriend/girlfriend) or just long term monogamous sexual relationship (ie. having a single ‘fuck buddy’) it can be okay to not use condoms. But if your relationship is not monogamous it becomes a bit of a problem because if you (for example) have unprotected sex with 3 people, and/or your partner has unprotected sex with 3 people, and neither of you know who has been tested and who hasn’t then both of you are at a high risk to contract something.
I hope this helps
ps. Plus making it a habit to get tested every 6 months, or after every partner, is a good idea (especially if you’re at risk for contracting HIV/AIDS).
And there wasn’t before Obamacare either thanks to the Hyde Amendment.
And this a damn fucking shame.
I try to keep a good deal of my politics off the internet but since this is a sex blog, and this is a very sex related topic, I’d like to share that it is a pet peeve of mine when people assume that their tax money pays for legal abortions (along with the idea that Planned Parenthood gives out a abortions. THEY DO NOT BTW). The only time an abortion is covered by the government is in case of rape and/or incest. But the number of women who actually press charges against their abuser is rather small in comparison to the number of women who have experienced sexual violence in their lifetime. So really Educate yourselves guys, this is kind of why I got into this blog is to help/educate people and break down so many barriers we have about sex in this world.
Anonymous asked: on the subject of masturbation, I work in an office environment ... I find myself using tumblr to get through the day. occasionally, it'll get me so worked up, that I'll need to find some relief while in the unisex bathroom. what are your feelings towards masturbation at the workplace? (and I know it's easier for a guy, what is the most unusual place you two have
Well I work as a cashier at a Del Taco when I’m not at university, so to me the idea of masturbating, or getting off, at the work place seems impossible to me. But whatever floats your boat I suppose, just as long as it does not interfere or keep you from doing normal things/activities and leading a normal life. And the most unusual place I’ve masturbated ? I’m not quite sure…I do not masturbate that often, but if I had to chose an unusual place I have masturbated in is probably an ex’s bathroom.
Anonymous asked: I'm young, married, great sex life, & very happy ... but I'm also a guy. I am eternally horny. Whenever left alone, I find myself occupying my time with porn/webcams (annon,no names). It doesn't get in the way of my daily goals, but I find it hard to avoid. Recently, my wife has befriended a younger woman who I find myself very attracted to. I would never act on my thoughts, but I enjoy when she's over and when I get to talk with her. As long as I don't cross any line, am I doing anything wrong?
From my perspective it does not seem like you are doing anything wrong. But I am also not married so I’m not sure how the dynamics of your relationship work and what they are. What I do know is that fantasy is very normal for everyone and to some extent healthy. I do know what it’s like to feel attracted to your significant other’s friends, and it’s okay as long as it’s just a simple form of attraction and not something you’d act on. To me if you feel that you find your wife’s friend attractive isn’t necessarily a bad thing. As long as you do not cross the threshold from thought to act then it’s okay. And the whole porn and cam thing…don’t sweat it. My human sexuality professor opened the lecture on masturbation with the statement “If you have two hands and say you do not masturbate…you are lying”. It is totally natural to want sex more often then you get it, and masturbation is a healthy way of releasing that tension. Hope this helps.
Hey guyse I found Robin’s Halloween costume ;D